Wednesday, March 11, 2009

Wording For Invititations, Paying For Meal

To experience the pain we move ...

On Saturday afternoon to our email was sore and sad message of a fellow activist Cali, Report of the heinous murder of Alvaro Miguel Rivera , a defender of human rights of LGBT people and HIV.


In the last year and more than 8 hate crimes occurred in our country, of which we are aware, or otr * s activists who have dared to complain, as in the case of Diana Navarro in the neighborhood of Santafe the location of the Martyrs, which has made the task of reporting on each of the violations that are referred by the public authorities and persons homotransfóbicas, trans girls in this sector.


is very sad to hear of this kind, but even worse, when we look inside and think "did nothing" or question us about the way we thought and almost over and with great frustration we crashed against the inexorable truth ... We really have not done even half ...


have a public policy and a favorable judgments for our rights is a big advantage is the result of a struggle and a wise and intelligent work, but not everything. Reality is not made definite by requiring that go beyond the March for LGBT Citizenship or Homophobia Non Gala ... beyond to be part of a political party or a work table ... beyond our organizations and a * s few leaders and women leaders ...


During the last two years we have been experiencing a process of maturation that has not come to an end, because we easily forget how we got here or other interests intersect we do not take into account the groups, as many times we say, but we start talking or working from another bank. But this is happening not have to move, we have to transform, must lead us to think this work and the industry from the possibility, now, if you recognize, with all our differences, our interests, our life stories and think This city needs to listen, this country needs to know that if people grieve for torture physical, psychological, sexual, professional, family and morality, which are subjected daily * s thousands of people who like Alvaro Miguel, want a different life, which are allowed to be.


We have a responsibility, let's face it, retomémosla, face it and work together * s. .. so it is not only the pain that moves us, but people who are waiting because this country is aware of who we are.

Saturday, March 7, 2009

Is Perrier Bad During Pregnancy



How many times have we felt like this after a meeting, a date or a conversation with someone else? It is easy to see right away, because normally we are left with a feeling of helplessness, of us behave as if we were someone else, like children begging for something awkward and insecure case. All the maturity and self confidence disappear losing all our security and reconnecting with that part of insecure child looking for love and approval outside of ourselves. We feel we have delivered to the other person, feeling tiny and victims. The question is: What prevents us from behaving in certain situations as we are for real?

The truth is that they are situations that will leave a bad taste but have a moral if you know to look. Life is always in an effort to help develop with people, we put in front of us the right people to bring back that fear or pattern of behavior that we carry from childhood and that we must be aware revive him, to uncover what we mean and integrate it with love in our personality.

The problem usually comes when we are not aware of what that tells us our helplessness and download all our frustration about ourselves calling all justified as children and hurting our self to the absolute limits.

This process is often repeated always relive the feeling that unless we connect with that part unsure of ourselves, afraid that the child seeks only love and give it so tender and unconditional. To accept this part of ourselves and understand it makes us more compassionate and less authoritarian in that part of us. Only in this way will achieve little by little to be ourselves in all occasions, thus regaining our power.

Again and as always, the work begins and ends with us. Both the coaching with the rebirthing (Renaissance) work that part of you so that you have in your Self

Coach David Gomez