How many times have we felt like this after a meeting, a date or a conversation with someone else? It is easy to see right away, because normally we are left with a feeling of helplessness, of us behave as if we were someone else, like children begging for something awkward and insecure case. All the maturity and self confidence disappear losing all our security and reconnecting with that part of insecure child looking for love and approval outside of ourselves. We feel we have delivered to the other person, feeling tiny and victims. The question is: What prevents us from behaving in certain situations as we are for real?
The truth is that they are situations that will leave a bad taste but have a moral if you know to look. Life is always in an effort to help develop with people, we put in front of us the right people to bring back that fear or pattern of behavior that we carry from childhood and that we must be aware revive him, to uncover what we mean and integrate it with love in our personality.
The problem usually comes when we are not aware of what that tells us our helplessness and download all our frustration about ourselves calling all justified as children and hurting our self to the absolute limits.
This process is often repeated always relive the feeling that unless we connect with that part unsure of ourselves, afraid that the child seeks only love and give it so tender and unconditional. To accept this part of ourselves and understand it makes us more compassionate and less authoritarian in that part of us. Only in this way will achieve little by little to be ourselves in all occasions, thus regaining our power.
Again and as always, the work begins and ends with us. Both the coaching with the rebirthing (Renaissance) work that part of you so that you have in your Self
Coach David Gomez
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