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Transform your interior and change the world

share with you a text published by Emma Garcia in his blog coachemmagarcia.wordpress.com

The world needs love, compassion, kindness, generosity ... Even if we look around we see disorder, imbalance, despair ... and then feel the need to do something, to act against injustice, against the social order or against the abuse of natural resources.

When a natural disaster occurs solidarity unites us, and when we see a group we tore barbarism garments. We can and must fight against violence of any kind, verbal or physical, gender, race or ideology, against war and poverty, or demonstrate for peace, endangered species or to combat climate change.

Everything is valid and necessary, but insufficient. It is essential for a better future to work towards the human being, the full potential that people have. To build partnerships on ethical individuals it is necessary to provide education on strong moral values \u200b\u200bwith large established principles.

priority is to look inside each one, work introspection to raise our self-knowledge, to become aware of our place in the world as unique individuals and together.
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are the world, capable of holding all that humanity demands. Develop our full potential depends on us.

When we are able to transform the inside will be able to improve all around. When we change to better one change to the lives on the planet inexorably.

is the sum of good people making a good world therefore become better people will help us to improve our environment. Let's judge your neighbor as we doing wrong or what we should do.

The work begins with you, look inside yourself you need to grow. See who you and shapes who you become.

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Life is loss and the loss is life I

share with you excerpts from the book Life Lessons by Elisabeth Kubler-Ross and David Kessler.

"Ultimately we lose everything we own, but what matters ultimately is never lost"

"Our houses, cars, jobs and money, our youth and even our loved ones have only borrowed "

" Our reality here is not permanent, nor what we have. Everything is temporary "

" But acceptance of this truth does not have to sadden. On the contrary, can provide the ability to better evaluate the myriad of experiences and wonderful things we have for as long as we stay here "

" When we experience a loss also experience that those who love taking care of us at times of necessity "

" The loss is a hole in the heart. But it is a hole that may contain inspires love and love of others "

" Finally we learn that no good trying to keep everything. And neither is trying to avoid the loss "

" It is common that during combat the loss of life and resist him, not understanding that life is loss and the loss is life, life can not change and we can not grow without loss "

" If you are suffering a great loss, it is only because life has filled with great blessings "

" The five stages, which describe how we react to all losses, not only death, can be applied to all our losses in life, big or small, permanent or temporary and are: denial, anger, covenant, depression and acceptance "

" What you feel when you lose someone or something is just what we should feel "

"Although not recoup what you lost, you can heal. And, at some point in your trip for life, you will see that person or object whose loss regretted not as you thought you belonged. And understand that, somehow, always will "

" The loss is one of the hardest lessons that life presents "

" It is better to have loved and lost what you love than never to have loved. And the truth is that rarely trade the experience of having our loved ones and then lose them for you have not ever had "

" Those who suffer losses eventually become stronger, more upright "

"When we lose the possessions of life, once the grief we discover that we are freer, and we understand that our destiny was to travel light, with this world"

"When we are united loss experience, we care about others and perceive a new and deeper "

" Just the uncertainty of whether there will be a loss is as difficult as this. Life sometimes requires us to live in limbo, not knowing whether or not suffer a loss "

"All our gifts are temporary. And, say goodbye to all things, find something within us that never loses "

" Everyone experiences losses in their own time and manner "

" We can not escape past. The suffering of the past often left in abeyance until we are ready to discover "

" We must take time to grieve and experience our losses "

" Nobody can tell us we should have healed, or the process goes too fast. The pain is always personal. As we move forward in life and we jammed, we are healing "

" Nobody knows the future. And, much as we want, we can not prevent the loss, we can not create a loss-free status "

" The loss is usually an initiation into adulthood. The loss makes us real men and women "

" The loss is a right of way. Through the fire to cross to the other side of life "

" We went through the fire and that changes us. Something goes renewed fire, a diamond is no longer a piece of rock "

" Steps to heal a loss:
; - Feel and recognize the loss when you're ready.
- Let the grace of denial do its job, and reminds you perceive your feelings when the time is right.
- find that the only way out of pain is through pain. You'll understand when you're ready.
- include the loss often takes years, not days or months.
- Find that you can accept a world in which the loss occurred "

" Even deep in our deepest sense of loss, we know that life goes on "

" Perhaps the only certainty about the loss is that time heals everything "

" What really matters is eternal and is ours forever. The love we felt and the love that we have never lost "

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share with you an excerpt from the book Letters to Claudia Jorge Bucay

"This is my way of defining love between friends, love between brothers , love between parents and children, love in a mate, the love ...

want to hear me without judging me.

I advise that no opines.

I want you to trust me without demanding .

I want to help me without trying to decide for me.

I want to take care without voiding.

look I want without projecting your stuff on me.

I want to hold me without choking.

anime I want without pushing.

I want you hold me without taking charge of me.

I want to protect me no lies.

I want to get close without intruding.

I want to know the things you most dislike mine.

I want you to accept and do not try to change them.

want you to know that today has me ... unconditionally. "

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LesBiTrans Feminist Encounter 2012 - Public Statement

All voices, all shapes,

all bodies, all practices.

From various places in Latin America and the Caribbean, we, some of the organizations and individuals participating in the VIII ELFLAC, we make public our collective thinking about it, and the future of our movements in the region.

First, we assert the centrality of women in the diversity we have had, have and continue taking practical and theoretical development of feminist movements in our region and the world. From this, highlight the importance of the existence of opportunities to share our experiences of struggle and critically recognize its impact on the transformation of our patriarchal societies, marked by violence and capitalist exploitation.

On this basis, from a feminist view, we see as strategic and absolutely necessary to build these spaces on the shaft of the meeting and recognition of diversity in all its senses.

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we believe in the collective construction of areas where access is not marked by biologicist or essentialism of any kind and where the "discourse of assembly" is neither the only nor the main form of communication, but we challenged our political bodies with its affections and feelings more diverse, in a range of languages \u200b\u200bthat reflect the vast interacting forms of transformation that we rehearse and deepen every day in our areas of feminist activism.

In turn, we propose that instead of "quarters own" closed and immutable, these meeting places can be huge gardens proliferate joints between different, and no exclusions.

THE ELFLAC VIII, a space of tension

The VIII meeting was characterized as a space crossed by multiple symbolic violence, where the disqualification was imposed as a hegemonic strategy of debate. In the plenary lived an aggressive environment, which included accusations and insults to colleagues, labeling them as the enemy.

confrontational The disqualification is not the place from which we find ourselves. We prefer dialogue to consecutive monologues, we prefer to learn from each other, our differences, our similarities, but always with respect.

For all these reasons that we live in deep pain ELFLAC VIII, finding no areas where we felt we actually owned. This past meeting, held in Guatemala City during the month of October, was marked by steadily discuss what are those factors that determine exclusions, when many of us we wanted to identify factors that invite inclusion.

In that train, the discussions yielded no ELFLAC a consensus to open the doors of the meeting to feminist lesbian transgender friends, for there and not give those who believe that the genital or non-binary gender expression is a barrier to join the space, thus preventing the entry of our trans sisters and brothers .

this space was also marked by the attempt to establish validity parameters both in our practical policy activists like in our sexuality, theoretical and life experiences. Determine "what is right" and "what is wrong" was the constant search, disguised as a self-criticism that was never such. Rather it was a process in which some, entrenched in the abstract space of critical theory devoid of practical everyday politics, self-sold the right to criticize the daily struggle of many others, who we had to argue in court the validity of such exalted of our tasks militants and our critical positions. In this dynamic, in turn, permanently forgot diversity of political, economic, cultural, with a stick trying to assess universal and absolute that much resembles the "thinking" forms of development of the feminist and lesbian activism in each of our countries. This trend of social control had its most cartoonish when it came to question the use of sex toys, arguing that such practices reinforced patriarchy and capitalism.

The language was a prison in ELFLAC, a prison where proliferancia elitist word "right" and "incorrect" and the demarcation of authoritative voices of others were not, were aware of the limited capacity this space to house mates from different socio-economic and cultural.

The consensus, in turn, beautiful practice collectivist became a tool of oppression and exclusion, devaluing, and on behalf of his defense and violated protection is censored and the different.

So much so that Michel, feminist lesbian partner was using the right to decide over their bodies, speaking, living masculinity in their own way, changing its name (but not sex) in the identity and embrace a transgender identity, was removed upon arrival at the meeting of two people in the Ekipo up a safety committee, which discussed whether he could enter the space, despite having prior confirmation that the same Ekipo invited to register and participate. He said it should be defined only as a lesbian feminist and a feminine naming themselves always, and to avoid discussing the "trans issue" and to stick to the violence that "his presence" would emerge from other "partners." During the meeting, when Michel wanted to participate in a workshop was asked to withdraw because "no longer looked like women," they wanted to speak in plenary was greeted with boos and cries of many "partners" who " accused "of" being a man "who could not speak because there was no consensus.

All these things we were Desencontro. At that time Ekipo Guatemala itself provided the break, and even proposed, inviting those who did not feel comfortable to be managed another meeting. But the determination of a few to keep this barrier to exclude people based on trans lesbian feminists universal and biological aspects was the element which caused our inevitable abandonment of ELFLAC VIII and strong decision to convene a bi trans feminist meeting where they all what was missing in Guatemala may be present.

COMING SOUTH: MULTIPLE MATCHES PARAGUAY 2012

Despite all the pain, however, this story is for us a hopeful end. Because it is from these encounters that today, with great joy, we announce and share with everyone * s, the birth of new and multiple games. And to that end we call on who sits belonging to this large and diverse community to participate at this point in the construction of the first Feminist Encuentro LesBiTrans Latin America and the Caribbean.

Is this a space built from now, with multiple crossings and encounters through all means possible, to do that in Paraguay in 2012 are all voices, all shapes, all bodies, all practices.

Only this space are excluded from those colleagues who feel that the only valid practice is practice, and the only valid address is his address, because from that place is impossible to be so lonely.

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SIGNATORY ORGANIZATIONS AND INDIVIDUALS


signatory:

Samira S. Montiel - Nicaragua

Martha Villanueva

Fabiana Tuñez - Argentina

Ada Beatriz Rico - Argentina

Ana Lucia Ramirez - Colombia-Chile

Claudia Patricia Corredor - Colombia

Judith Grenn - Paraguay
Camila Zabala - Paraguay

Rosa Posa - Paraguay

Peki Ferandez - Paraguay

Mali Ramirez - Paraguay

Arrúa Rafaela Cañete - Paraguay

Carolina Robledo - Paraguay

Cristina Nascimento - Brazil

Valeria Rubino - Uruguay

Mariana Rodriguez - Uruguay

Sandra Montealegre - Colombia

Lorena Espinoza - Dominican Republic

Shirley Alarcon Zamora - Costa Rica

Gladys Galarreta - Peru

Margarita Salas Guzmán - Costa Rica

Mora Paulina Torres - Costa Rica

Ballestra Graciela - Argentina

Claudia Castro - Argentina
Gabrielle Esteban, Colombia - Ecuador


Organizations:


aired - Paraguay
Civil Association La Casa del Encuentro - Argentina

Women and Health Collective - Dominican Republic

Women on the Verge - Colombia

19 and Lilliana - Uruguay

Collective Black Sheep - Uruguay

Kolectivo Rebeldías Lesbian

Collective Trans Tortillera Paila Marina, Chile.

Theater Group Loucas de Pedra Lilies - Brazil

Coordinator Against Sexual Orientation Discrimination - Costa Rica

Open Door - Argentina

The Jane Doe - Argentina
Collective different senses, Colombia - Ecuador